Melissa GouldinThe MemoiristCruising Through Life as a Young WidowI Haven’t Moved on, but I Have Moved Forward.Jan 233Jan 233
Melissa GouldinThe MemoiristLife As A Young Widow: WWJDAsking Myself “What Would Joel Do” Has Been My CompassOct 26, 20235Oct 26, 20235
Melissa GouldinHello, LoveI Am Widow, Hear Me CryTears keep falling — On a hike, A phone call, Even at a partySep 22, 202322Sep 22, 202322
Melissa GouldinThe MemoiristCompeting While GrievingIs There Really A Winner?Aug 5, 20233Aug 5, 20233
Melissa GouldinThe MemoiristRedefining Grief: What It Means To Be WidowishThis essay is from the “Widowish Vault” — one of the first essays I wrote after losing my husband to West Nile Virus nearly 10 years agoJul 17, 202315Jul 17, 202315
Melissa GouldinHEART. SOUL. PEN.My Boyfriend’s Love Language is QuietI need to talk about that.May 22, 20233May 22, 20233
Melissa GouldinHello, LoveMy Husband Died Almost Ten Years Ago and Our Computer Still Haunts MeI have an iMac computer that sits on my desk. It contains photos, contacts, home movies, and everything from business documents to drafts…Mar 1, 202321Mar 1, 202321
Melissa GouldinHEART. SOUL. PEN.Why Am I The Only One Eating The Cake?Some friends and I celebrated my birthday recently. This included a light spread of some mixed nuts, brie and crackers, wine, champagne…Dec 9, 202229Dec 9, 202229
Melissa GouldinChange Becomes YouTips From a Reluctant YogiOn Living Life Off the MatOct 19, 2022Oct 19, 2022
Melissa GouldinHEART. SOUL. PEN.Celebrating My Husband’s Birthday With or Without HimMy husband’s 59th birthday is this week and even though Joel died a few months after he turned 50, I find myself wondering, “How could I be…Aug 7, 20221Aug 7, 20221